Oncken Counseling Services - 425.771.1914

Tel: 425.771.1914 
Call: 800.379.0882 
Fax: 425.771.0127

Gerald Oncken, Ph.D. and Joan Oncken, M.Ed., M.A., LMFT have been personally trained by Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus and numerous other titles. Click to learn more about us.

4215 198th St. SW 
Suite 102 
Lynnwood,  WA  98036 
info@onckencounselingservices.com

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Communication and Life Solutions for Individuals and Couples

Joan & Gerald Oncken

We offer counseling, coaching, and training that are designed to help you:

  • Open new possibilities for rich, fulfilling lives and relationships;
  • Learn skills and know how in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, and relationship enhancement;
  • Develop improved communication, rekindled romance, deeper intimacy, and lasting passion in your relationships;
  • Experience relief and recovery from the debilitating effects of anger, infidelity, depression, trauma, shame, anxiety, grief, and guilt.

Relationship Services. We are specialists in promoting and restoring healthy, happy relationships among spouses, partners, family members, and work colleagues. We offer specific, practical ways to communicate and relate to one another so you can break the frustrating cycles of blame, defensiveness, stonewalling, and repetitive conflicts. By applying some new ideas and simple skills, you will find that many times, small adjustments can make a big difference. Click for more about our relationship services.

Parenting Services. Parenting is difficult in the best of circumstances. And when you add the additional stresses of busy lives, broken families, and blended families, it can be even more challenging. We offer support, coaching, and much needed skills for parents to achieve effective discipline and elicit cooperation from their children without resorting to punishment, threats, fear, or intimidation.  Click here for more information about our parenting services.

Individual Services. Many people find the quality of their lives diminished because of the effects of issues including trauma & abuse, anxiety, stress, depression, shame, grief, guilt, excessive anger, dysfunctional relationships spiritual crises, and life transitions. We offer individual and group counseling to help you achieve relief and transformation in these troubling areas. Learn more about our individual services by clicking here: individual services

What others are saying:
"I would not be where I am today without the help and guidance you have provided when I needed it so much."

 

"When we first started this process I was in a state of confusion and despair. . . Now I have learned the skills I need to make our marriage work. . . Each day I feel closer and more connected to him than I ever would have thought possible with one human being."

 

"I feel more love for my wife now that I have a better understanding of how she operates"

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